it happens often, obviously, but it's not fun letting people down. especially when you actually are forced to do it, but you just feel too bad. then again, it's just not what you want, and you can't go on pretending to that person. that hurts more in the end. lying doesn't work, ever.
but how do you go about doing all of this? how does that conversation start? do you just go right out and say it? do you start by saying "hey, you're great but..."? or how about the "it's not you, it's me" line? or maybe just avoid that person altogether and hope they see what you're getting at?
so annoying trying to figure it out. but when it's finally out, it's a gigantic relief. it's just... getting to that point that makes it difficult.
blagh. stupid.
quotes? of course (goodness, i should just makes a blog full of quotes *rolls eyes*):
"life takes your dreams and turns them upside down,
friends talk about you when you're not around.
people make promises they just can't keep,
and i've come to realize that talk is cheap.
too often we don't realize what we have until it's gone.
too often we wait too long to say "i'm sorry, i was wrong".
sometimes it seems we hurt the ones we hold dearest to our hearts,
and we allow foolish things to tear our lives apart."
"when it comes down to it, i let them think what they want. if they care enough with what i do, then i’m already better than them." -Marilyn Monroe
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The feeling of knowing you are going to let someone else down before you do it is the absolute worst. There is never a right way to say it and it always comes out stupid but it is inevetable and in the end the right thing to do. Believe me i should be a freaking pro at it by now. lol
i'm always a fan of the quotes you put up! :)
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